Hard to pull the slide to the rear?
Not really a job for a gunsmith, sounds like you want a lighter recoil spring. M&Ps do not respond well to lighter recoil springs. The striker is cocked as the slide closing the last 1/4" or so, and the barrel locks up at the same time, everything happening at once. If you do put in a lighter recoil spring, you may get occasional problem of the slide not going fully into battery, or the striker not being reset. That problem can be cured with a lighter striker spring, but then you may have problems with light strikes. Even before all of that, you don't want to be shooting factory ammo with a lighter recoil spring, if you are reloading you can tune the load and spring combination. Will you be shooting major or minor PF ?