I have a mag safety/no external safety M&P 45 since new. It shoots well for me, very accurate with no malfunctions (all factory ammo) at 1k rounds. Am I correct in assuming that you want the external safety model because you're planning on a
very light trigger job?
The interchangeable backstrap is a nice feature, and can be done fast enough that if someone at the range with different size hands wants to try it, you should bring the extra backstraps.
There have been 3 occasions where I had a magazine hang up halfway in during a reload - all different mags. All 3 were fixed by pulling the mag out slightly and running it in again. Inspecting the pistol afterwards, I was able, by pushing the mag deliberately sideways while loading, to catch the feed lip on the mag catch. It doesn't get stuck, it just stops moving into the grip.
None of our 4 right hand M&P shooters have reported having this problem. I shoot lefty, but the mag catch is left in the traditional right hand position. I have other pistols that don't have a reversible or ambi mag catch, so I always use my left index finger to release a mag. I haven't explored whether reversing the mag catch to the lefty position would prevent the mag from hanging up.
It occurs to me as I'm writing that I should really talk to S&W about this......
During my normal reload, putting a full mag in will trip the slide release. I don't mind it, every double stack 45 I've owned has done this. I like it, I know it annoys some people.
All 6 of our M&P 45s consistently leave what looks like light gas discoloration on one side of the fired brass. I'm not sure if this is a deliberately loose chamber for reliability, or if it's just our pistols. The 6 serial numbers are all within 50 of each other, so if a chambering reamer was going off, it would have done all of our barrels. Anyone else with the 45 noticed this? I would assume that the higher pressures the 40 runs at would seal the brass up in the chamber no matter what size it was.
I like my M&P45, and I trust it. Maybe not my favorite pistol ever, but a damn good one.