Amen.
The other thing to realize is that when you present your opinions, you have to present them in a way that they can be heard. If you go into a meeting and say "that rule is bunch of BS created by a bunch of FUDD old farts, yadda, yadda, yadda," guess what? You just blew your chances of making a change.
Expect it to take time. Gain the confidence of the club leaders (formal and informal) before trying to tackle controversial changes.
Not only is the WAY you present your idea important, but being willing to offer a solution and contribute your own time to make that solution work is MUCH more likely to gain approval than simply pointing out a problem.