Welcome to the board. The only real way you'll figure this out is going to a range and renting the ones you're interested (or becoming a paid member here and going to a shoot). American Firearm School in N. Attleboro and Manchester Firing Line in NH are the rental ranges that come to mind.
Personally, I own both a 92FS and a M&P 9c with an Apex kit. I like both a lot for different reasons, 92 - Home defense/range time, 9c - carry once I lose my lovely restrictions/range time. I tried a 226 at AFS and just didn't shoot it as well. It had been on my short list, but the short time renting it and the higher cost led me to the 92FS. Best of luck deciding.
Personally, I own both a 92FS and a M&P 9c with an Apex kit. I like both a lot for different reasons, 92 - Home defense/range time, 9c - carry once I lose my lovely restrictions/range time. I tried a 226 at AFS and just didn't shoot it as well. It had been on my short list, but the short time renting it and the higher cost led me to the 92FS. Best of luck deciding.