Hey Queen Bee... everyone's been super helpful and has given you lots of great options/suggestions... and since I'm a guy... I'm not sure I can add any more... but what I can offer is the chance for you to try out a bunch of guns if you'd like.
I have the guns below... and if you're ever interested in trying any of them out... just shoot me a PM and we can meet up at HSC or MRA or a range that you belong to.
HK USP Compact 9mm
Glock 17, 19, 26 9mm's
Kahr MK9 9mm
Sig 228, 225 9mm's
Ruger SP101 .357mag/.38spec 2" barrel (GREAT revolver as it's compact, yet heavy so it absorbs a lot of the recoil compared to the lighter revolvers that can kick quite a bit)
S&W 60 .38spec snubby
Anyway... anytime you want to try any of those out... just holler.
Hanwei
I have the guns below... and if you're ever interested in trying any of them out... just shoot me a PM and we can meet up at HSC or MRA or a range that you belong to.
HK USP Compact 9mm
Glock 17, 19, 26 9mm's
Kahr MK9 9mm
Sig 228, 225 9mm's
Ruger SP101 .357mag/.38spec 2" barrel (GREAT revolver as it's compact, yet heavy so it absorbs a lot of the recoil compared to the lighter revolvers that can kick quite a bit)
S&W 60 .38spec snubby
Anyway... anytime you want to try any of those out... just holler.
Hanwei