I am sorry to hear that we failed to make the best impression possible on your recent visit. To address some of your comments:
- As the oldest active gun club in America, we have quite a few older members, and they certainly have some stories to tell. I choose to see it as a valuable resource rather than a hindrance. Many of them have been shooting, reloading, and tinkering for longer than I have been alive. If you don't want to shoot the breeze with the other members, there are plenty of folks that sign-in, shoot, and sign-out without engaging in the "social aspect" of the club.
- The range rules are there to keep the members safe and the to keep the club operational. That being said, the rules are periodically reviewed and modified. As a member, if you want to see something changed, you can advocate to make that happen.
- Currently one of the ranges is undergoing significant renovation, and as a result, decades worth of equipment has been relocated on the property. Right now some of that is sitting in the observation room of the Loeb range, but this is a temporary situation.
- The wait list is long because the demand is high. MRA is one of the few clubs that processes new members more than once a month, and the orientation process is designed to ensure all members meet a baseline level of safety and responsibility. The probationary period is to ensure this high level of safety before a member can utilize the ranges where failure to meet these standards could have more severe consequences.
There are groups within the club that may cater more specifically to your interests. Given the size of our membership, I am confident that you could find those among us who share your interests.
For women, we have the Women's Instructional Shoot every June that is specifically set up to introduce/welcome women to the shooting sports. There is also the Cuff Cup in July, a women only pistol match. As far as I am aware, women participate in all of the organized teams/activities at the club.
For younger shooters, we have a junior rifle and pistol program, both of which compete at the highest levels nationally.
If you are focused on defensive handgun, and looking for an opportunity to draw from the holster on the range, I would highly recommend the Static Steel matches held twice a month on Monday nights.
Mass Rifle is a volunteer run organization, so if there is something you think could be improved, we welcome you to step up as a member and help us improve it.