Dadstoys
NES Member
A friend of mine had a break up ( Not married) and she filed a restraining order against him.It’s so easy to use the system as a weapon. Think about this, a woman wants a divorce because she’s not in love any longer or he cheated, whatever. If she has an evil or anger in her. She tears her shirt, hits her self in the face enough to leave redness, makes some marks on her arms, makes some scratches, knocks a few thins over, breaks a lamp…., then runs out of the house screaming, go3s to the neighbors to call 911. Cops show up, woman says my husband attacked me…. guy says I didn’t touch her, I was watching tv in the basement. Cops automatically arrest husband and he’s getting prosecuted for that. Then wife files for TRO with the arrest, police report etc as evidence.
Wife gets a burner phone, texts her own phone says “you had me arrested, I’m going to kill you”. Husband is arrested for violating TRO before the hearing on extending the TRO. TRO will definitely be extended, a judge is always going to go that way. Husband is going to get killed in the divorce, have a TRO, the RO and the risk wife could claims he threatened her again etc and get arrested again for violating it, spend a ton of money on lawyers, probably lose friends over this because some will want to be away from the controversy and possibly lose his job.
If it were an ex gf she could arrange a meeting at her house or his and much of the same. Obviously a guy could attempt the same but because men and generally larger than woman and police and courts are MUCH less likely to view men as sympathetically as women in these situations, it is less likely to work. A co worker, neighbor etc could do much of this and destroy a person.
With a few hours to plan and enact the scheme, an evil person with an understanding of how the system works, can toss someone into the gears of the system to endure months or years of hell and after the first few days or weeks, the evil person really won’t need to do anything else, the system will be on autopilot and destroy the persons life.
They had a kid and she called him up and said she wanted to talk and work things out for the sake of the kid.
As soon as she hung up she called the PD and told them he just called to say he was coming to kill her.
When he showed up , four cops jumped him and beat the ever living bag out of him before cuffing and arresting him.