Hey Deezul, you unknowingly walked into the "caliber wars", which are fought regularly on just about every gun forum on the internet. No one ever wins.
9mm, 40s&w, 45acp are all fine for defense, as are many other calibers. They're all fine for target shooting, too. And you're going to end up trying them all at some point and possibly buying guns chambered in each.
Here's my advice: if you want maximum number of rounds, go with 9mm, but buy a gun that has readily available pre-ban mags. If you want a big bang and larger energy delivered on target, but are ok with lower capacity, go with 45. If you want a compromise between the two, go with .40.
The felt recoil has as much to do with the specific firearm as it does with the cartridge, especially for these 3 caliber choices.
If you're on the South Shore somewhere, I am happy to meet with you and let you shoot a few calibers to get a feel. I don't have an M&P, but I have a couple of other makes you can try out.
9mm, 40s&w, 45acp are all fine for defense, as are many other calibers. They're all fine for target shooting, too. And you're going to end up trying them all at some point and possibly buying guns chambered in each.
Here's my advice: if you want maximum number of rounds, go with 9mm, but buy a gun that has readily available pre-ban mags. If you want a big bang and larger energy delivered on target, but are ok with lower capacity, go with 45. If you want a compromise between the two, go with .40.
The felt recoil has as much to do with the specific firearm as it does with the cartridge, especially for these 3 caliber choices.
If you're on the South Shore somewhere, I am happy to meet with you and let you shoot a few calibers to get a feel. I don't have an M&P, but I have a couple of other makes you can try out.
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