We agree.
Although the big costs are in welfare/medicare/medicaid and everybody is afraid to cut there.
Medicare is self-funded (well, it's supposed to be) so that isn't something that we should be talking about cutting.
The biggest social welfare programs are SNAP and TANF. SNAP (Food stamps) was $74.6 billion last year. TANF (temporary assistance for needy families) cost the government $9.6 billion in 2011 (quick Googling didn't give me 2012 numbers). Both of those programs are literally half (in money - about 1/3 in people receiving) what they were prior to 1996 when Bill Clinton - that paragon of conservative values - signed the Welfare Reform act.
So we're in the neighborhood of $90 billion for social programs not including Medicare which people pay into themselves and are entitled to just as anyone who pays into a pension is entitled to get their own investments back. $90 billion sounds like a lot until you consider that the total budget requests for defense spending were $1.45
trillion this year which includes spending for the military, homeland security and - importantly -
paying for wars we've already fought, because despite Bush's very optimistic prediction, the Iraq war did not pay for itself. It didn't even pretend to reach for the check when the waiter laid it on the table.
Who would have thought a war wouldn't be a money making operation?
Unless you are Halliburton or KBR or Halliburton-KBR. Anyone who has been overseas during these wars will tell you of the waste that is rampant among these civilian contractors. Ridiculous waste. Especially when the military already has the people to do every single job a civilian contractor fills. We survived over 200 years with a self-sufficient military - they have always brought their own cooks, engineers, plumbers, carpenters, computer guys, gate guards, etc. But for some reason we have decided it would be better to pay, say, a plumber, over $100,000 a year plus the added security it takes to ensure he is safe than just have a private from an engineering company do the same thing for half as much and be trained to defend himself so he doesn't have to be protected by someone else.
That's where your money is going. Wasteful programs, wars being fought by private contractors - crap like that absolutely dwarfs the amount we spend on social welfare programs and actual necessary hands on training by military personnel combined.