The basic software seems to remember nodes that it's seen and any information those nodes have put out (location, battery level, etc) as well as how many hops away the node was.
I think I've already explained it, but you connect your phone/laptop/tablet to your node with bluetooth/wifi (whatever your node device supports) and it talks to other nodes via 915MHz and "joins the mesh". From there, messages are routed through the mesh network to get where they're going. If you want to send/receive messages you have to have a phone/laptop/tablet connected to a node. Node = meshtastic device.
Not to further derail, but:
I had the same luck with FRS/GMRS on scan. One time I heard two guys working on an electrical outlet in their house. That was the best reception I've gotten. But FRS/GMRS are for talking to people you know, not calling CQ like ham radio. So there's that.
I gave up monitoring repeaters on the highway. When I take long drives like for Thanksgiving/Christmas I monitor 146.520 and hear just about nothing. But everyone else is doing the same. When I'm not trying to pay attention to directions I'll throw my call out a few times and I've had good luck with that. I even add in "southbound on I-whatever". I don't know if that helps or not, but I get responses. I've had some real nice conversations with folks. I told one guy I had an FT-857D with me and he said he'd buy it off me at the next rest area

. One time I got a guy who must have been on a hill overlooking the valley I was in. He could tell from static exactly where I was. Next time I'm going to put a 146.520 sign in my back window.