.357 was the first cartridge I started reloading, some 35 years ago. Of the many thousands I've loaded since that time, I would guess that less than 10% were "really" .357, the remainder being the equivalent of .38 Special target loads. I load them all in .357 cases to avoid building up a ring in the chambers at what would be the mouth of the shorter cases. Never had the slightest hint of a problem doing this - nor have I ever heard of anyone having a problem.
On the other hand, I have friends who shoot .38 Special cases in their .357s and eventually end up having trouble (which can be remedied with a bit of time and effort) chambering the longer cases.
A nice, easy shooting load that I like is a 148 gr. HBWC over 3.8 gr of Unique. It's very accurate for me in each of about a half-dozen different revolvers.