You know, I never did either, but the truth is most people in public safety wanna be safe and they're afraid of pushing against the tide me? I never gave a shit. Maybe that I learn things in life they were much more important than to be liked
I get that. I ran into similar circumstances many times in my 21 years in the Army.
But what I am talking about has nothing to do with being liked, I am talking about putting their livelihoods, and therefore their family's financial security at risk.
Look, we all choose what to prioritize in life. For some it is country, for others God, and for some it is the Constitution or 2A, some version of what they think is "right".
I fall on the side of my family. They are more important to me than the Constitution, or God, or country, or my community, or any sense of "right". What is right for me may be different from what is right for you, or anyone else. And it is not my place (or yours, or anyone else's) to criticize a person for what they place the most value on in life. THAT is the very core of individual freedom, which is, after all, what this country is all about.
I bid you all good day. This conversation has reinforced why I never bothered to get involved in "discussions" over the last 7 years on this forum. It is clear that if you think for yourself and don't toe the "party/NES" line, you will be ridiculed and insulted.
I have too thick a skin to be bothered by it, but I have far better things to do with my time.
(doffing my chapeau and taking my leave)