great advice
I have been reading a lot of good advice. This is what's been given to me by members of certain Army organizations that are highly respected. First and foremost: Never practice with anything that you won't carry. A .22 is GREAT for fun and cheap shooting. Unfortunately, its' recoil is nothing like the ammo you would normally carry for home defense or personal conceal and carry. I personally went with a .38 Special from Smith (J frame) who IMHO creates the best revolvers for what they call a "Summer Carry". It is big in impact and conceals about the same as a .380 which is awesome for concealment. In my summer-lite clothes, you can barely notice I'm carrying it. Yet, if you fire it at the range, you know that it will ruin some bad guy's day if they approach you in any illegal fashion. After practing shooting with that, shooting a pistol was CAKE. However, the downfall (outside the high recoil), is that it has been proven to be less than 100% effective in penetrating through layers of winter-heavy clothing. Which is why I went with the .40 cal (Smith and Wesson SW99). It falls short of the stopping power of a .357sig but its' availibity of types of rounds makes it more attractive. If you do not care about it containing such an esoteric round, I suggest finding a gun with the .357 round (P229 or P226). Please read up on penetrating power before you continue). I would also suggest if you buy both of these guns, one for home defense and one for C&C, you buy both barrels with the same round. It'll be much easier to find rounds lying around the house. With that said, I would like to revisit what I said about the penetration of winter clothing. Although, it will stop an individual wearing a leather jacket, certain rounds of the .38 Special have been known to be stopped by a t-shirt (so I've been told). One must study the expansion rate of a certain bullet even after you've purchased the weapon. I bought the .38Special not knowing the dangers of certain brands. It turns out, if I just bought the next box of ammo on the next shelf for the same price, I would have been able to buy the stopping power of a .357 Magnum. Just food for thought. No gun is "wrong" but just understand that EVERY gun is designed for a special purpose and it was designed by an engineer. I know from working with engineers, they are not always geniuses and you should be careful. Like many of the other Post'ers say, try out the gun before you buy it. It's an investment in your safety and your family's safety, don't buy it like you would buy a liability.