Couple months ago, we're sitting on the couch watching a movie, and the wife in the movie's bitching at the husband, saying (more or less), "yeah, I'll say blah, blah, blah, you'll pretend to listen and at the end you'll just do whatever you want to do".
My wife looks at me, laughs, and says "that's you, that's exactly what you f***ing do because you're Allen". I just laughed, because it's true.
She's right. We have conversations, I think about what she's said/saying; then I do whatever I want to. Sometimes it means that I change my mind because of what she said - sometimes not. Sometimes there are consequences.
So, this is just - if I decide to go shooting at Volusia when I'm in the keys - I'm gonna do it. It'll be a logistics question.