My brother is gay, and I am fully supportive and do not view him any differently. I can't say everyone else views him the same, but that is ok not to accept it, you don't have to, and he doesn't need you to.
How does a right that literally states "Shall not be infringed" compare to this situation at all? We are talking about 1% of the world population that is trans opposed to 40% of the US population alone being gun owners.
Why do I care? It's affecting my children's education, movies, TV shows, and books? It's being pushed on our children at a level that is honestly disturbing.
How would you feel if a biological male was going to the ladies bathroom with your underage daughter or in girls's locker rooms?
We have people identifying as animals, so when does it end? Should we support them and get them a cat boxes or take them outside to go to the bathroom?
Can I identify as law enforcement and be exempt from all this BS?
You're entirely missing the point.
There are people gun owners (people like you) actively antagonize and vilify and threaten and (joke) about doing harm to, and THEY VOTE. Not only do they vote, but all of their allies who are not queer vote. And they don't give a shit about your gun rights because you are, in their minds an existential threat to them and their friends.
You can whine about what you believe is "right" or "correct" or "immutable" or whatever, and vilify them, and they'll vote against your rights because you threaten their lives.
You don't have to like it, but you can't whine about them disliking you when you actively vilify them. If you want to maintain or regain gun rights, you can't expect that to happen when you talk the way you do about people you need as an ally. You don't have to *like* trans people, but you sure as hell need to shut the f*** up about it, and maybe even pretend that they have rights that need to be defended too.
As to the rest of your questions: I don't care
at all if a trans woman is in the bathroom/locker room with my mother/wife/daughter. They're not a threat to me or anyone I know. Trans people are victims of violence so much more often than the perpetrators the latter category barely even exists. "gaybashing" still exists.
But you know who is a threat? Queerphobic people who threaten them. I taught an LTC class with a bunch of trans women in it. They were there literally because they felt threatened by people who talk the way you do. It's actually worse than that: Men and women who are not .. traditionally attractive, are getting beat up because transphobic shitballs think they're trans, and for some reason have a problem with it.