allen-1
NES Member
Starting with "but I have a gay/black friend/brother/uncle and I don't have a problem with him, but..." is the same as "I support the second amendment, but..." It's bullshit weasel-wording.
Why do you care even a little bit what someone else calls themself? That's a serious question. We're not talking a surprise "Crying Game" situation here, they literally have zero overlap with you.
I don't care what's in someone else's pants or how they dress or if they want to be called "Tony" or "Tanya" None of my business. Unless you're getting naked with them, or their doctor, it's none of your business either.
It's none of my business until it becomes my business through their actions. My wife was in the changing room at Planet Fitness and a male calling himself female walked in and undressed. My wife was *pissed*. She dressed, spoke to management, was told that they were okay with the actions of that person - and she tore up her membership and hasn't been back.
That's not "I heard it from my neighbor, who heard it from their sister who heard it from blah, blah, blah" - that's directly from my wife.
There's a sign on the bathroom at a local pizzeria we go to regularly, (yeah, they actually do have a few good pizza places here in Georgia, *few*).