I think it's time for you (and others) to take a seriously serious look at the .45 GAP.Ruh Row...
Hi Caps will now be illegal to carry outside of the home or range.
Looks like I'm looking for a 10 rounder only!!!
How about a G26 Gen 5 9mm MOS???
Ok, jokes aside, maybe it's time to show your gay pride and look at .40.
Still not hard? Okay, maybe give a chamber non-conforming Glock a try in the 10mm G29 and grab a spare .40 barrel (or just be a man and say fukk it and shoot .40 in the 10mm barrel.) It's not gay cuz it's still technically a 10mm, but at times identifies as the 40 S&W.
If you still can't decide, maybe it's time to transition into Eurotrash with a .32 ACP.