Lol it's not that much of an illusion, go to North Korea and come back. Even shitty MA is a bastion of freedom in relative terms compared to that. And most of this bullshit is a product of your own making, some arbitrary stupid faggoty malum prohibitum law isnt really an obstacle to most people from most angles.
One balance though for someone with more than one brain cell, NH is objectively less onerous than all the other alternatives even with a lot of weighting. For 20% window tint and no pot stores, WGAF.... you get the right to vote, better representation and a whole bunch of things that are INFINITELY more difficult to come by. Like roads that arent on average nearly as f***ed up as the ones in mass are.
Obviously that balancing act is different for everyone. We have people here who will live in mass because the pizza sucks in NH, so there's that.